Temat: violence
What about the man who hits a woman? Will she hit him back to show him his place? Rather not. Or so I thought until I read this article in Polityka about a growing number of women beating up men ;)
In pronciple, I don't believe in violence and look up to all people who can do without it and still do well in their lives. But I resent the fact that not everyone can defend themselves when violence is used against them and by this I largely understand women who are physically weaker. It's just not fair.
Although, obviously, a lot of it is in the mind - the ability to defend yourself, sense a guy who's been behaving a bit 'funny' right from the start and not go for him or simply cut it off when violence does get out of control.
It's not ok to hit anyone. I suspect that if women hit men, they do so because they need to gain some kind of physical power over men, which they obviously don't have (and perhaps resent the fact?) Dunno, I'm not a psychologist. I think things such as humiliation can be involved. But women don't excel at physical violence, they've learnt to use all kinds of twisted games, mood swings, reverse psychology, they can be quite spiteful too. Some men hate it more than violence.
And, as always, balance is the key. Which is why I like it when both men and women display features typical of both sexes. I like strong women who can be assertive, can make use of their anger effectively and when needed, keep a cool head like men do. And I like men who are sensitive and good at listening like Daniel Craig ;)