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An Englishman living in Poland, a friend of mine, has recently joined the local Chamber of Commerce here. He said he wanted to be a part of it and to get to know business people better. He was a member (!) of a similar organization back in the UK. This made me think about integration into our lovely homogenous society.

How much have you integrated as a foreigner into the Polish society? Do you consider yourself a Pole?

If you speak the language, do you read our (local) papers, watch/listen to the news? If not, how else? Would you ever go on a Polish music concert?

Do you support OUR football teams and beauty contests, no mention the Eurovision?

What are the things definitely you're NOT going to integrate with?
Food is the easiest, try with something else.

It's just my curiosity.
(Magda B.'s professional help with vocab will be appreciated;))

For our Polish friends - do you think you've integrated with your local community? Or are you just alien to your society (it's sometimes the case with the IT people)?Lidia K. edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.06.08 o godzinie 13:47
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I feel very close to Poles although I can't communicate with all of them. I can't say what exactly the reason for that is, but my neighbours for example, are as loud as some Turks, and they are very similar to Turks in some behavioural aspects.
They like eating in their garden (when the weather is ok for humans to go out), they like to gather with their friends and drink beer etc. And I feel them close. About 20 metres. hahaah.
The way the husband screams: "Agnieszzkaa!" and the way the wife screams "Rrrysz!" is awesome. I could shoot 5 episodes of comedy series with them at least. And their dog is also sweet.
But don't you think they are the only Poles I find the similarities with... it is almost everywhere.

Sure, there are a lot of differences too, but I have a great sympathy to Poles. Too bad, the music bussiness (related to my job) is very boring, I could decide to stay here longer maybe.

I read Polish newspapers (without really understanding everything), listen to Polish radio stations, watch Polish TV every day, though not for long ours, and not understanding everything.

I've been busy with my job and some stupid things since 2001, so I'm not able to go out and socialize. I didn't pay enough effort to really learn the language. But it doesn't keep me from feeling close to Poles, and anything related to Poland.
I'm a big fan of Adam Małysz, Robert Kubica, I support Polish teams whenever there's a match, and I have a sympathy to Donald Tusk. I even had a chat with him once (in my dream of course. hehe).

I was thinking of applying for the citizenship (because I have the right to do it), but I have learnt that I have to leave my Turkish citizenship... so I'm not going to do it.

No matter where I'll be living in the future, Poland will be a special place for me.
And I will still be supporting Kubica, because he is an amazing driver! :)ilter Kalkanci edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.06.08 o godzinie 14:30

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Thanks for the thread, Lidia.

I'll respond when I find time.

It would also be interesting to ask Poles how 'integrated' they feel in the U.K.. and other 'foreign' countries.

We have Poles resident in the Netherlands and Italy here, for example.warren whitmore edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.06.08 o godzinie 14:32

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yes :)
we've also got some from Canada and Australia

it's just that I found the number of possibilities that occurred too overwhelming to describe

but I'd be very much interested in each situation

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ilter
Too bad, the music bussiness (related to my job) is very boring, I could decide to stay here longer maybe.
Stay longer? Are you leaving Warsaw?
I've been busy with my job and some stupid things since 2001, so I'm not able to go out and socialize. I didn't pay enough effort to really learn the language. But it doesn't keep me from feeling close to Poles, and anything related to Poland.
What do you mean, Ilter? Why can't you go out?!

Somehow I thought your Polish was ok.

Do you say 'dzien dobry' to your neighbours every day?
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Lidia K.:
Stay longer? Are you leaving Warsaw?
Nothing is certain yet.
What do you mean, Ilter? Why can't you go out?!
I am working for Turkey alone in my studio while living in here, and it doesn't seem like something clever to do with my life.
I will be working on one more project for Poland to give it another shot, but if it won't work well, I don't see the point of forcing the things more and ruining another 7 years of my life.
At least I can say: "I tried" now :)
Somehow I thought your Polish was ok.
Do you say 'dzien dobry' to your neighbours every day?
My Polish is not good enough to communicate. I can't speak when something goes out of routine. Surely I am able to make shopping, responding with short sentences when I understand the things, but the level of communication is "not there yet".ilter Kalkanci edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.06.08 o godzinie 15:10

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Lidia K.:
It's just my curiosity.
(Magda B.'s professional help with vocab will be appreciated;))

No, it's not needed! All you've written, Lidia is absolutely sociological, including the key term "integration" :)

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How much have you integrated as a foreigner into the Polish society? Do you consider yourself a Pole?
At work a little ... but it's very difficult because of the language barrier.

If you speak the language, do you read our (local) papers, watch/listen to the news? If not, how else? Would you ever go on a Polish music concert?
No papers & news. I visited twice the National teatre in Warsaw.
Do you support OUR football teams and beauty contests, no mention the Eurovision?
I will support the Polish team !!
What are the things definitely you're NOT going to integrate with?
Food is the easiest, try with something else.
The way they can drink alcohol, the way they can drive as crazy :))
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Lidia K.:

How much have you integrated as a foreigner into the Polish society? Do you consider yourself a Pole?

A very interesting question. Of course Warsaw society is a good deal less homogenous than the rest of Poland, but the East and Central European countries have some very specific ideas about nationality which is a complicated enough issue even without that.

I certainly don't feel like a Pole (but what is a Pole? Does an American of Polish origins who's never been to Poland and speaks broken Polish count, or a Polish citizen of German origins who's lived all their life here and has Polish as a first language? Is nationality about blood, culture, language, or something more inchoate?).

I am however a Polish resident and as the years pass have less and less contact with the UK. If not Poland, then where?

If you speak the language, do you read our (local) papers, watch/listen to the news? If not, how else? Would you ever go on a Polish music concert?

I speak the language far more often than I speak English, read the newspapers here. Don't have a TV anyway, except in the kitchen for the person who cleans.

I go to Polish concerts, theatre, wystawy, wernisaży all the time. Not English or even English-language in Warsaw. Never bother with tourist attractions and actively dislike historical museums, especially if there is a political gloss, as in Poland there invariably is.

Don't have much contact with English-speaking expats, by choice, though I am in the Chamber of Commerce for other reasons, and a whole variety of Polish organisations.

Do you support OUR football teams and beauty contests, no mention
the Eurovision?

The football test (similar to Norman Tebbitt's Cricket test) is a thorny one. But if the Poland team is playing anyone from outside The Commonwealth, they would have my support.

I most definitely don't support any beauty contest anywhere, and the government and people of Poland should be ashamed that they allowed Miss World to be held here. In this day and age, really!

And given Poland's near inability to have an entry to Eurovision (or any other pop song ever) that is anything other than risible - listen to Anna Jantar, Michał Wiśniewski, Violetta Villas, Czesław Niemen, Doda, Maryla Rodowicz, Mandarynka et al and you'll see what I mean - then I don't support them in Eurovision (or Britain either). But tactfully pretend to friends that I do.

Nevertheless, there is some very, very good music in Poland. Just not pop.

What are the things definitely you're NOT going to integrate with?
Food is the easiest, try with something else.

Never liked cabbage or pork whether British or Polish, though there's a great difference in what different people here eat - I wish Poles wouldn't try to homogenise everythng - there were cookbooks available here from the 1920s onwards advising housewives how to make their cooking more Polish and less regional, usually meaning blander.

Despite this, there's a difference between the Polish food that a cosmopolitan and generationally affluent Polish person eats and some God-awful gołąbki, schabowy or pierogi leniwy. Elitist, but true. Good food is good food, regardless of origin. And even if an immigrant doesn't cook Polish dishes, they sure as heck have to use Polish ingredients. This is where Fusion Cuisine comes from, Toad-in-the-Hole using kielbasa, Scotch Eggs using przepiórki eggs, etc.

In other matters, despite being an immigrant and therefore close to the edge of the sharp-end of such things, I'll probably never develop the obsession with nationality, race, religion and historical injustice that persists here, nor will I start shutting windows to keep the air out (a long-running source of tension with my lodgers). Nor will I ever take Rutinoscorbin or wear a hat and scarf on the bus, a baseball cap anywhere. Or one of those waistcoats with all the pockets. And my stomach will stay flat!

Assimilating to another culture is a complex matter, and in Central Europe even more so than normal. There isn't an equivalent of the Association of Poles in Britain, to assert and promote the rights of British people, though I understand there's plans afoot. When the big chunk of central Warsaw and vast tracts of land in Mazowsze that belong to the British community in Poland are finally recovered (about 2000 people of British descent/culture lived in Warsaw until 1939, many for generations and almost none survived, and no attempt was made to trace their heirs), there will be a motive for organising something. Money talks, and in Central Europe land ownership talks louder. There's also a campaign to get a British person onto the City Council at the next election. This will be a wonderfully symbolicstep. There are local politicians in the UK who settled there from Poland, what a wonderful act of cementing the links between our nations it will be when the reverse is true.

After the Treaty of Nice is implemented and EU citizens can vote in national and not just local elections there will be more of a sense of integration. This is an even bigger step - not just symbolic.

For a lot of immigrants, even most, they aren't here on one-year job postings or because they like the culture and traditions. Or want to taste the pierogi and listen to Chopin (an immigrant himself). They are here due to circumstance and whether they like it or not. I'm fortunate that I do like it and have been able to assimilate quite well, to the point of having to try hard to protect my accent and cultural values.

It's imposible to generalise about nationality, assimilation, and migration, not least because the development of the EU will require ever-changing definitions of those terms, however the specific circumstances that have linked British and Polish people since 2004 will have a huge effect on the cultural/national identity of many people. And this works both ways. There are a lot of people who are half-British and half Polish. It will be interesting to see how many of the kids born to British/Polish couples will grow up to be half-Polish Britons or half-British Poles. I suspect there will be plenty of both.

After 8 years though, I still meet a**holes who insist on speaking English to me, ask how Im enjoying my 'stay' (purleez), which hotel I'm in, and tell me that they can 'help' me find a flat (no thanks, but I could help them find somewhere if they want).

So no easy answers, but even though Lidia's question is a sensible one, the next person who asks "How long You are in the Poland?", "What do you like about`our country?", "Did you ever try Bigos/pierogi/oscypki?", or "Why did you come to The Poland?" may well get it in the pysk.Jon M. edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.06.08 o godzinie 19:01

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Nice long post, Jon.
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warren whitmore:
Nice long post, Jon.


Wrote it earlier - couldn't post it because of internet problems so kept on revising it and trying not to sound bitter. Any bitterness was due to overhearing (at the Polish branch of an international group) someone saying to another person that 'Anglicy zą tak ohydyny jak Żydzi' (for me a compliment, but not intended that way), and another member of the same telling me 'nie lubię Anglików, ale Ty jesteś jedynym Anglikiem że lubię'. I tried not to show my anger, however if those statements were made in UK, they would be illegal.

And the people who made them are part of the so-called cultural elite!Jon M. edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.06.08 o godzinie 18:48

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This, in fact, is not a thread for me and I don`t want to get in the pysk, for any reason. I`d only like to draw your attention to the fact that even Polish people don`t feel integrated very often. On Steve Jones` thread about Warsaw I wrote my opinion that to me Warsaw was not such a beautiful, clean and precious place in the world as many people stated and I nearly got lynched. All in all I was "kindly" asked to move...Violetta P. edytował(a) ten post dnia 09.06.08 o godzinie 21:52

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Jon M.:
warren whitmore:
Nice long post, Jon.


Wrote it earlier - couldn't post it because of internet problems so kept on revising it and trying not to sound bitter. Any bitterness was due to overhearing (at the Polish branch of an international group) someone saying to another person that 'Anglicy zą tak ohydyny jak Żydzi' (for me a compliment, but not intended that way), and another member of the same telling me 'nie lubię Anglików, ale Ty jesteś jedynym Anglikiem że lubię'. I tried not to show my anger, however if those statements were made in UK, they would be illegal.

And the people who made them are part of the so-called cultural elite!Jon M. edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.06.08 o godzinie 18:48
Forget them! And so will I as I am ashamed...
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I was ashamed, since it happened in a very close group which exists to promote tolerance and decency. I've heard English people speak badly about Poles too - this happens everywhere, and makes me angry. But shouldn't.
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Violetta P.:
This, in fact, is not a thread for me and I don`t want to get in the pysk, for any reason. I`d only like to draw your attention to the fact that even Polish people don`t feel integrated very often. In Steve Jones` thread about Warsaw I wrote my opinion that to me Warsaw was not such a beautiful, clean and precious place in the world as many people stated and I nearly got lynched. All in all I was "kindly" asked to move...


For the whole 19th century and part of the 20th, Poland was a beautiful ideal rather than an ordinary country, and people often tend to see what is reprezentacjyny. I don't blame them, but it tends to create sacred cows which make integration hard.

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Jon M.:

'nie lubię Anglików, ale Ty jesteś jedynym Anglikiem że lubię'. I tried not to show my anger, however if those statements were made in UK, they would be illegal.

And the people who made them are part of the so-called cultural elite!

That's usually the case, same as here people saying - I am not prejudice! I have a black friend! (or gay, asian, hispanic etc etc.) so damn annoying. The comment about Jews and Brits.. urgh.. perfect case of second hand embarrassment. Actually I've been having an ongoing argument on the "bez tabu" board about cultural prejudice, it makes you feel like Don Quichotte or sometimes it just makes you want to bash your own head against the wall.

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Jon M.:
For the whole 19th century and part of the 20th, Poland was a beautiful ideal rather than an ordinary country, and people often tend to see what is reprezentacjyny. I don't blame them, but it tends to create sacred cows which make integration hard.

Yes, up until right before the first war, it was the place to be. It was a great time of hope and it was all taken away so abruptly. Some people still like to hold onto that dream. Especially those who are disendence of the first wave of immigrants, like those from General Andersa army.

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wow, Jon!
so much to think about in your post! thanks for the food for thought!

I apologize if you get my integration question as the nosy 'how long have you been in Poland' and 'what on earth are you doing here' interrogation.

It was supposed to be a springboard for some free impressions on the topic. I'm genuinely interested in how people can live in a culture even a little different to theirs. I'd definitely have a problem with that.
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Lidia K.:
I'd definitely have a problem with that.
Me too. What intrests me most though is if we had the same attitude as John...

But all you write is darn interesting.

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Violetta P.:
This, in fact, is not a thread for me and I don`t want to get in the pysk, for any reason. I`d only like to draw your attention to the fact that even Polish people don`t feel integrated very often. In Steve Jones` thread about Warsaw I wrote my opinion that to me Warsaw was not such a beautiful, clean and precious place in the world as many people stated and I nearly got lynched. All in all I was "kindly" asked to move...
this thread is also for you, Violetta! :)

you're right about the non-integration of Poles into their own society, are you one of the outsiders? from a short glance into your profile I can see you're a university teacher, so are you expected to be a role model for your students as well?

integration into the society is one of the maturity signposts of a person I believe (Magda B. help!)

please express your opinion as well (don't shut your pysk, please!)Lidia K. edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.06.08 o godzinie 20:18

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