Michal B. stud.
Temat: Can you picture yourself living in another country?
warren whitmore:See? Your wife made a mistake at the beginning.:) She should have forced you to learn as much of the language as possible when you came 'fresh' here. Everybody discovers after some time that "well, it's not so bad - I can survive" and give up trying to speak the language.
Michal B.:However, if you bring your spouse, there are only two solutions:
2. You agree to assist him/her forever and ever. At least he/she is under your total control :-)
This has been a massive source of friction for my wife and I.
At first, she enjoyed doing this.
Later, she got fed up with it.
The lady I mentioned earlier first came to live in Białystok, on the eastern border, where almost nobody spoke English. She said she felt so lonely there that she tought she would die. Then did some intensive course in Polish and things slowly started to get better. Now she bought a flat in Warsaw and only her close friends remember that she is Canadian.
Unfortunately, it's not just the case of 'knowing the language'. You also have to know the proceedures, which are sometimes 'strange'.
Also, if you're doing any kind of business, you will often get a lower price if the deal is conducted by a Polish, rather than English, speaker.
It's very funny observing a nwewcomer to Poland trying to deal with Polish bureaucracy and bureaucrats. (Not for them, of course).
That is absolutely true. But to console you, the bureaucratic procedures are equally mysterious even to us Poles, unless you are a super clever Pole and know all the catches :)Michal B. edytował(a) ten post dnia 16.08.09 o godzinie 19:41