Ilter K.

Ilter K. Business Developer,
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Just a minute ago, some addicted people among us made me remember about an article and research.
It surely about sex again... whatelse I'd like to talk about?

Well, to make things easier for you, article and research says:
new toys are harming our sex lives.

Would you disagree?

(I'm asking to people who already have a sex life)
hehe.
(Ok, I was kidding)
(People without a sex life might give an answer to a different question... like: "Do the new technology, toys and internet effecting your real life in a bad way? Do you feel bad? Do you need help? Sorry, I can not help you. I'm on the other side of the screen)

Important reading:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/23749828/
(now, not that serious)ilter K. edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.08.08 o godzinie 19:15
Ilter K.

Ilter K. Business Developer,
Music Producer, AVID
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Temat: How new technologies are destroying sex

Ok, me first.

I'm really trying hard not to loose all of my day in internet, surfing unconsciously.
I'm doing it since 1996, and am already -kind of- fed up with this habit.

Everyday, every hour, I'm fighting myself. Lately I am successful.
I cut it down to 6 hours or so (Except for the times when I HAVE TO be online, for sure)ilter K. edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.08.08 o godzinie 19:20

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I think that as long as I don`t go to the toilet with my laptop, as a friend of mine does, everything is OK. When I have to work a lot I`m not online. Ok, I am but it`s only Outlook Express. Well, in fact it`s also one communicator. But unfortunately I always have my mobile on, night and day. But bed is bed. No laptops, no mobiles, no TV.

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The terrible effect of new technology on me is primarily the fact that I've become so impatient that reading your article, Ilter, seems endless and I give up.

I think now I have problems to focus on one thing at a time, as there are always a couple of things going on and I'm awfully distracted.

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ilter K.:
I'm really trying hard not to loose all of my day in internet,
surfing unconsciously.
I never search unconsciously. So you mean you just jump from one page to another without any reason?
Ilter K.

Ilter K. Business Developer,
Music Producer, AVID
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Temat: How new technologies are destroying sex

Lidia K.:
The terrible effect of new technology on me is primarily the fact that I've become so impatient that reading your article, Ilter, seems endless and I give up...
Again!? :)
My post, or the article in the msn? hehe
Maybe I should write shorter posts?

Ok. :)

Another survey was released recently by a UK electronics retailer that showed nearly half of British men would happily give up sex for six months in exchange for a free 50-inch plasma TV.

Guys? We have couple of British man in the house... So, whadda ya say?
Ilter K.

Ilter K. Business Developer,
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Temat: How new technologies are destroying sex

Violetta P.:
I never search unconsciously. So you mean you just jump from one page to another without any reason?
Not without any reason.

I sometimes jump from one link to another, because I see another thing in one page.
So, instead of reading something and close the browser window, I visit 2 more links, etc.

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ilter K.:
Again!? :)
My post, or the article in the msn? hehe
Maybe I should write shorter posts?
right! I forgot that you used to write long and proper posts, sorry!
I meant the msn article, of course:)

nearly half of British men would happily give up sex for six months in exchange for a free 50-inch plasma TV.
wow
Ilter K.

Ilter K. Business Developer,
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Temat: How new technologies are destroying sex

From an online survey of msn:
Do you e-mail, text or surf the Web from bed?
* 543 responses

- Yes, I just can't unplug, even in the bedroom.
39%

- No way. The bedroom is where I go to escape from all that.
61%

Not a scientific survey. Click to learn more. Results may not total 100% due to rounding.

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Will you be willing to comment on the influence of the Net on your sexual life? (the reply is optional;))
Kari W.

Kari W. education

Temat: How new technologies are destroying sex

It can be difficult to get your partner in the mood when he/she is already souped up talking to several people on line all over the world about interesting topics. There should be some time during the week in which the computer is turned off, so that we can turn our partners on.

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I'd rather not comment, Violetta ;)

As for addiction - well, I never use the computer in bed, except on very rare occasions when I'm really sick yet have to do the bills, issue invoices or rachunek for my teachers, or deal with a problem.
Unfortunately, a lot of what I do (or rather used to do) involves being online, sometimes 24/7, and I am now cleaning up all the mess for someone else to take over.
I know couples who have split up because of the internet, or rather dating sites, so I can say it's a dangerous thing. You never know if your partner isn't cheating on you in the virtual world as you're asleep in bed!
On the other hand, we have discussed the phenomenon of couples who actually met through dating sites or other.

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Well internet is not the only new tech to destroy everyday activities. Though this one is maybe more for boys but video games can also be a nasty habit (http://www.cassovia.sk/hry/nu_pagadi/pagadi.swf )

And though I'm not fully satisfied I managed lately to cut down the time I spend on-line doing nothing in fact ;)Michał K. edytował(a) ten post dnia 08.08.08 o godzinie 21:34

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Until quite recently I used to use my computer as my only source of information on almost anything; I would spend hours visiting BBC sites, all possible English papers, travelling from one link to another. However, I would always switch it off at some reasonable time. Not any longer. GL, and Anglosphere in particular, are so addictive that one can't go to bed until after it's already light outside:) and you never know who and when is going to send something interesting to read. Would hate to miss a post sent by one of you even if you do that at some 'crazy' hour. :)
Kari W.

Kari W. education

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you never know who and when is
going to send something interesting to read. Would hate to miss a post sent by one of you even if you do that at some 'crazy' hour. :)

I post somewhere between 4 and 6 in the morning, being that I am in US. It gets lonely. Sometimes I steal a day during the week to indulge so I can share in conversations. Like today!

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